艾滋病患者的拥抱,你会拒绝吗?


艾滋病患者的拥抱,你会拒绝吗?

黄哲雯
 


2008年11月27日08:37  来源:《工人日报》
 

  12月1日是世界艾滋病日,据近日《青岛早报》报道,为了让更多市民了解日常接触不会感染艾滋病,青岛科技大学的学生和红十字会志愿者100多人日前假扮艾滋病患者,要求与市民拥抱,遭到七成市民的拒绝。

  虽然事情发生在青岛,不可以偏概全,但是看来,谈“艾”色变的状况依然存在。尽管这些年来相关宣传做了不少,但艾滋病患者的生存环境并不乐观,他们依然承受着不小的压力。

  是众人不了解艾滋病的传播途径、担心拥抱会染上艾滋病吗?未必,更多的来自下意识的排斥,抑或可称之为歧视——明知身体接触不传染,但还是远离。试想一下,如果当时被要求拥抱的是自己,我们又能否保证坦然面对,不会拒绝呢?

  道理不是不明白——与其他病患一样,艾滋病患者理应得到人们的同情与关爱,况且,相当一部分人的感染是被动和无辜的,如从母体感染上病毒的婴儿,在献血输血时的被感染者——对此,许多人都清楚,只是行为的改变往往不是一朝一夕的事情。就像倡导不随地吐痰、不随手乱扔垃圾一样,明白了其中的道理是一回事,能身体力行去做又是一回事。

  艾滋病患者的身体已饱受疾病的折磨,如果他们再遭人白眼,受人歧视,被社会抛弃,那么,久而久之,有人可能会自暴自弃。曾经发生过的艾滋病患者报复伤人之举便是例证。所以,如果我们一时还不习惯拥抱这一过于亲热的方式,至少,我们可以把善意的目光投向他们,平等视之。

  艾滋病正在严重地威胁着人类的生存,通过世界艾滋病日的宣传,目的就是为了让人们了解有关艾滋病预防的知识,同时唤起人们对艾滋病病毒感染者的同情和理解。

  艾滋病患者多得到一份善待,他们就会多一份做人的自尊,多一份挑战命运的勇气。一句问候,一次握手,一个拥抱,都可以给艾滋病患者莫大的鼓励和心灵慰藉。尽管目前的情况还不尽如人意,但相信随着时间的推移,谈“艾”色变会渐渐随风远去。

AIDS hug, you will refuse it?

Huang Zhewen
 


At 8:37 on November 27, 2008 Source: "Worker's Daily"
 

December 1 was World AIDS Day, according to a recent "Qingdao Morning Post" reported that in order to let more people understand the day-to-day contact with infected with AIDS will not, Qingdao University of Science and Technology students and Red Cross volunteers a few days ago more than 100 people posing as patients with AIDS, With the requirements of the public to embrace, 70 people have been rejected.

Although the matter took place in Qingdao, can not represent the whole picture, it seems, to talk about "Ai" the mere mention of the situation still exists. Despite the years done a lot of relevant information, but the survival of AIDS patients is not optimistic about the environment, they are still under pressure.

People do not understand is the way to the spread of AIDS, fear AIDS will embrace it? May not be, from more unconsciously of exclusion, discrimination or what might be called - not knowing that physical contact transmission, but still far away. Imagine if at that time were asked to embrace their own, can we ensure that calm in the face, will not be turned down?

Is not a reason not understand - and other patients, AIDS patients should be the people's sympathy and love Moreover, a considerable number of people infected with the passive and innocent, such as from the mother of the babies infected with the virus in the blood when the blood was Infected people - this, many people are aware that the only change in behavior is not often take time. Just do not advocate spitting, littering is not easy, to understand the logic of which is one thing to practice is one thing and do another.

AIDS patients suffering from diseases of the body had been tortured again if they were looked down upon, discrimination, abandoned by society, with the passage of time, some people may give up on themselves. Have occurred in retaliation for the wounding of AIDS patients is to give an example. Therefore, if we are not accustomed to embrace this moment too affectionate way, at least, we can look into their well-meaning, as the equal of.

AIDS is a serious threat to the survival of humanity through the promotion of World AIDS Day, the purpose is to allow people to learn more about AIDS prevention knowledge, at the same time raise awareness of HIV-infected people's sympathy and understanding.

AIDS patients get more of a treat, they will be more than a life of self-respect, a number of challenges to the fate of courage. A greeting, a handshake, a hug, to people living with AIDS can be a great encouragement and spiritual solace. Despite the current situation is not satisfactory, it is believed that with the passage of time, to talk about "Ai" mere mention will be gradually gone with the wind.

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