汪春华：用“爱”防“艾”的性教育让我无语

12日上午，成都大学师范学院内，四川省首届性教育辅修师范专业开班仪式在这里举行，继首都师范大学之后，成都大学成为全国第二个、四川省第一个开设性教育辅修专业的大学。“中国青少年艾滋病防治教育工程”形象大使、央视著名主持人白岩松(上图)到场助阵。

作为“青艾工程”的形象大使，白岩松认为应该用“爱”防“艾”，显得更温和。“孩子们会拒绝谈论艾滋病，但谁会不愿意接受爱的教育呢？”

“不能把性教育课上成生理卫生课。”白岩松认为，由于目前青少年了解性信息的渠道较多，对“性”已经有了一定程度地了解，没必要完全讲授生理卫生知识，而应该把“性”当作“爱”来进行教授。

品位完白岩松的话语，我不禁产生感想。

在我们眼中，艾滋病是丑陋的东西，让人避之唯恐不及，而“爱”却是美妙和崇高的东西，白岩松用“爱”这样温馨的方式来诠释关于“艾滋病”和“性”这样的敏感话题，让我为他的教育方式的巧妙而钦佩。

然而，什么是“爱”？莫非社会能制定一个统一的标准来衡量大学生的交往之中是否存在“爱”？ 莫非有特定的测试仪器来测量哪些大学生恋人是真爱，哪些大学生恋人是假爱？

显然，我们社会不能做到这点，因为大学生之间的所谓的爱，只是她们自己的标准，而这样的标准和尺度是绝对自由和主观的，随心所欲，各有千秋。许多大学生以为对方一见钟情的外貌就是爱，有的学生认为对方的一句幽默的话语就能让自己产生爱的火花，总之，浪漫是爱的伴娘，婚姻不是爱的归宿。而随着人与人之间通讯工具的先进，人的一生中还会不断遇到“爱”，这意味着人们也可以不断地进行“性”。

当“爱”成了“性”的理由，当“性”批上了“爱”的外衣的时候，这时的“性”就变得光明正大甚至非常崇高。 使得外界舆论对“性”的批评和谴责便失去了依据。

当“性”变成了“爱”的产物的时候，对“性”的享受也就被视为人们生活水平提高的标志，这必然导致人们对“性”的不顾一切地追求。

我认为，这样的学校“性”教育还不如说成是一次医学的教育。

如果不能正确认识“爱”与“性”之间的关系，如果不能保留中国的传统性观念的矜持和羞涩，那么所谓的学校公开的性教育只会被学生误解为“性解放”教育，不但不会杜绝艾滋病，反而会让我们离艾滋病越来越近。

作者：汪春华

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• 艾滋病成为第一大死因病种[刘君]的对策与思考Wang Chunhua: The "love" defense "Ai" sex education let me speechless
      At 9:38 on the September 15, 2010 Sports Network
  12 in the morning, the University Teachers College in Chengdu, Sichuan Normal minor professional sex education classes in the first ceremony was held here, after following the Capital Normal University, Chengdu University became the second country, Sichuan province the first college to offer sex Minor . "China Youth AIDS Prevention Education Project," image ambassador, the famous CCTV host Bai Yansong (above) arrived at the scene help out.
  
  As "Project Green AI" image ambassador, Bai Yansong think we should use "love" defense "Ai", appear to be more moderate. "The kids will refuse to talk about AIDS, but who are unwilling to accept love, education?"
  
  "Can not the sex education class into a physical health class." Bai Yansong held that because of information Dequ Dao Qing Shaonian Liaojie more on the "sex" Yi Jing 有了 some extent to understand not necessary to completely teach physical Wei Sheng knowledge, should be "sex" as "love" to be professors.
  
  Bai Yansong finished grade words, I can not help but feeling.
  
  In our eyes, AIDS is ugly, people dared touch it, but "love" is wonderful and noble things, Bai Yansong with "love" such a nice way to interpret on the "AIDS" and "sex" sensitive topic, I for his education and his admiration for the clever way.
  
  However, what is "love"? Does the community can develop a uniform standard to measure the interaction among students the existence of "love"? Are there specific test equipment to measure what students are lovers true love, which students love lover is false?
  
  Clearly, our society can not do that, because of the so-called love between students, but their own standards, but this is definitely the standard of freedom and subjective, arbitrary, each has its advantages. Many college students think that the other is love at first sight the appearance of some students that the other side of a humorous discourse can allow themselves produce sparks of love, short, romantic love bridesmaids, the ultimate goal of marriage is not love. With advanced communication between people, human life will continue to experience "love", which means people can continue to be "sex."
  
  When the "love" into "sexual" reasons, when the "nature" approved on the "love" when the cloak, when the "sex" to become open and aboveboard and even very high. Make public opinion that the "nature" of criticism and condemnation have lost the basis.
  
  When the "sex" into the "love" the product of the time on the "nature" to enjoy improved living standards also be seen as a sign of people, this is bound to lead people to "sex" in desperate pursuit.
  
  I think that this school "sex" education not as good as said to be a medical education.
  
  If you can not correctly understand the "love" and "sexual" relationship can not be retained if the traditional Chinese concept of reserved and shy, then the so-called sex education in public schools, students will only be interpreted as "sexual liberation" of education, not only will not prevent AIDS, but makes us closer from AIDS.
  
  Author: Wang Chunhua